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Bruce Sargent of Caribou traveled to Nigeria last May, he only
expected to be there for a few weeks.
Though Bruce owns Sargent Trucking in Mars Hill, he had
decided to take on a new venture, along with his partners, to
mine zinc in this remote part of the world.
After being in Nigeria long enough to get through the
governmental red tape blocking equipment transport, he realized
that his trip would have to be extended indefinitely to help
with production.
By
September, Bruce's wife Sherry was anxious to see him.
Though her planned trip to Nigeria to meet him was
postponed due to the terrorist attacks, she rescheduled and was
reunited with her husband at the end of October. Bruce still had to work and Sherry was eager to learn more
about the area. She
decided to visit a local Motherless Baby Shelter.
She adored babies, and realized that she could go and
play with the children while helping out a little.
Sherry
was shocked by what she saw upon entering the dark cement
building that was the shelter.
She was stricken by the tiny faces of babies dominating
the place. The
babies had each lost their mother in childbirth and had been
left there by their fathers until they were old enough to walk.
Sherry
saw infants and pre-toddlers lying around on the cement floors,
some on thin straw blankets.
They had no diapers, only little shirts. If a child used the bathroom, they were simply picked up by
the arm, wiped under, and laid back on the cleaned cement.
Many of the children did not even have sheets on their
mattresses at night.
Sherry
returned to the shelter each day after that, and each day she
cried for the children. They
were innocent babies who had no idea that they had no mother, no
real love; infants who knew no other image but the cement walls
which surrounded them. Some
were obviously sick and dying from lack of nutrition and lack of
human affection. Though
Sherry loved them all, one little boy particularly captured her
heart - one little boy name Ifeanyi.
Ifeanyi
was two-and-a-half years old, yet, he still could not walk and
therefore hadn't been reclaimed by his father.
Nigerian men must work hard for little wages which equal
about a dollar a day in America.
Ifeanyi's father was unable to care for the little boy
who was not developing fast enough in the lifeless environment
of the shelter. Ifeanyi's
legs and arms were mere bones and skin, and his tiny ribs showed
through his shirt. He weighed only fifteen pounds.
At
first Sherry worried that the child had been abused.
Bruises on his body and bumps on his head gave fuel to
her fears. Over
time she learned that Ifeanyi and the other children were not
abused, only neglected. The
girls taking care of the babies did their best, but there were
only three of them taking care of the twenty-five infants, and
financial resources were extremely limited.
Not
only could Ifeanyi not walk or stand, but he made little noise
at all. But there
was something very special about the little boy.
Sherry could see that the child was failing fast and had
given up on life, but she also saw his potential.
She fell in love with him the first time she held him.
As he grew attached to Sherry, he would smile at her,
lighting up the entire shelter. The workers told Sherry that Ifeanyi would listen for her
car to arrive and watch the door intently to see if it were her.
If it was, he would drag himself as quickly as possible to
see her, blessing her with a delightful grin.
If not Sherry, he'd lie back down and wait.
As
Sherry grew closer to the boy and saw how desperately he needed
help, she took matters into her own hands, deciding that
something must be done. She
took Ifeanyi to a doctor to determine the cause of his lack of
development. The doctor's diagnosis: Cerebral Palsy.
Immediately Sherry started making arrangements to obtain a
Medical Visa which would allow her to bring Ifeanyi back to the
U.S.A where he could receive adequate medical attention.
Sherry
first had to meet with Ifeanyi's father.
She and the shelter director went to the rice mill in the
local village where he worked and spoke with him.
He was very willing to allow his son to travel to America
and receive medical attention. Next came legal issues and paperwork.
Sherry unfortunately had to return home on December 4 when
her Visa expired. Bruce
followed soon thereafter to be home for the holidays.
The earliest date that the Sargents could get the Medical
Visa was January 11, so they left together on January 6 to get
Ifeanyi and bring him to his new home in America.
Bruce
and Sherry returned home with Ifeanyi on January 13.
Family members and friends were immediately enchanted
with him, welcoming him as one of their own.
Life suddenly became much different for the little boy
who had never seen a toy and did not know how to play.
Yet over the few weeks that he has been a part of the
Sargent family, he has had major breakthroughs.
With the constant love and affection given him by Sherry
and Bruce, Ifeanyi has begun to wake up smiling, ready to be
taken into the arms of one who wants him.
He is fascinated with toys, studying them, learning and
playing. He has
fallen in love with the big purple dinosaur Barney and adores
cookies!
Upon
arriving home, Sherry quickly took Ifeanyi to see Dr. Fournier
at TAMC. A multiple
of tests have been promising.
Ifeanyi's head is healing of its bumps and he has gained
a notable amount of weight.
The best news is that it looks as if he does not have
Cerebral Palsy after all, he was simply extremely malnourished.
Already the child who could not even crawl is standing.
A little boy who made no sound is now making lots of
noise!
Sherry
and her husband are now working on adopting Ifeanyi.
Ifeanyi's father in Nigeria has expressed his desire for
the Sargents to adopt him, making the process hopefully go
smoothly. Sherry is
more than anxious for Ifeanyi to spend a lifetime with her and
her family. It's
easy to see why she is so enamored of the boy.
Ifeanyi easily steals the hearts of all who meet him with
his enchanting smile and big innocent eyes.
Though
the Sargents have no plans of adopting more children in the
future, Sherry says she will continue to do all she can to help
the Nigerian children in the shelter.
She hasn't seen the last of those motherless babies whose
images have been engraved on her heart.
She shudders to think what may have happened to Ifeanyi
if she hadn't found him. Children
as young as ten or eleven, who are handicapped or deformed in
anyway, are sat in the streets, left to beg for money.
If left in the shelter, Ifeanyi may never have learned to
walk or talk, and thus been determined mentally retarded and put
in what Nigerians call a 'crazy house.'
This would have been an unimaginable fate.
Thankfully Ifeanyi's fate was
changed and he has become part of our world in the County.
He will live and develop, and learn to love.
Some individuals have expressed a desire to help the
babies in Nigeria. Sherry encourages all who wish to donate finances toward the
Nigerian Motherless Baby Shelter to contact her. She is very familiar with all the needs of the infants and
shelter, and is willing to see that the money donated would be
used to help the children.
Thank
you to Shelly Esancy of Fort Fairfield for bringing this
heart-warming story to our attention.
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