With Memorial Day upon us America is celebrating
the memory of U.S. war veterans. My family will be celebrating the memory of my
grandfather, Army veteran and retired police officer - Alfred Joseph Paul.
Growing up I had never questioned what my grandparents were before they were grandparents. I remember being in elementary school and interviewing my grandmother about the Depression because I had to - it was an assignment. I never had any real interest in it, which is a shame now because that part of history made her who she was. The same is true for my grandfather. When I was a small child the only thing I knew about my grandfather was how great he was. It never dawned on me that he was more than just my "Pa".
As I became a teenager I couldn't wait to visit my
grandparents on the weekends. My grandfather would sit on the sun porch where the
cool evening breezes would refresh the hot summer air. My grandfather was simply a
grandfather. He always made sure my sister and I had more candy than we should have
had and always snuck a few coins in our pocket on the way out the door. He passed away a
few years back and it wasn't until after he passed that I learned more about him and who
he was. "Pa" was a wonderful grandfather to me and just over the last year
have I learned how much he gave to his country and his community. He never talked
about his past career in the military so I've set out to discover it on my own. With
Memorial Day coming this weekend I thought I'd share a little about his life.
Alfred Joseph Paul was born in Worcester, Massachusetts. Immediately after leaving from North Brookfield High School, he joined the Army as a foot soldier. He was assigned to the the 1st Division, "The Big Red One", 5th Infantry. One of his first assignments was Fort McKinley on Great Diamond Island. Fort McKinley, located at Diamond Cove, was designed to defend Portland Harbor during the Spanish-American War. Built between 1891 and 1907, Fort McKinley housed more than 1,000 soldiers in brick barracks and Queen Anne-style officers quarters surrounding a stately parade ground.
After Alfred's return from Germany he was stationed in
France in the early 1950's. The entire family traveled with him to France and lived there
for a few years. My mother was old enough at the time to remember a lot about their
stay there. I have a photo album full of pictures of the family, friends, and fellow
soldiers taken during his stay there. Sometimes I wonder what ever
My grandfather was then stationed in Maine in the late 1950's at Fort Williams. According to his dog tags he was known as "Golden Boy". My mother and I had the opportunity to attend the Centennial Celebration of Fort Williams last summer. As we walked around the Fort my mother recalled her childhood days of playing on the lawns and watching the soldiers on the parade grounds. We stood in the very spot where her old house once stood near the old fire house. We were fortunate enough to meet with several families in the Reunion Tent who were stationed at the Fort the same time my grandfather was. My mother had the chance to sit and talk with a fellow she used to play with as a child.
My grandfather not only sent material goods but also wrote love letters to my grandmother while he was away. I was fortunate enough to have read a few that my grandmother kept. They contained the most affectionate words I could have ever imagined. Reading those letters helped me to see my grandparents in a different light. Even though those letters were very personal it made me realize that "Nana" and "Pa" were no different than any of the other couples who faced war together. It gave me a deeper appreciation for the love that they shared.
In May, 1963 Alfred retired from the Army at Fort Devens as
a Master Sergeant and settled with his family in Scarborough, Maine. He became a police
officer for the Town of Scarborough. In the late 1960's he moved from his job as a
patrol officer to become the town's first dispatcher. Alfred remained active after his retirement by serving as a two-time president of the 5th U.S. Infantry Association. He was a member of the Harold T. Andrews American Legion Post and encouraged his family to be involved. His two daughters were members of the Junior Auxiliary for the Andrews Unit AL as were two of his sisters-in-law. When he passed away in 1995 Alfred was 81 years old. He had a brief stay at the Maine Veterans Home in Scarborough and is laid to rest beside my grandmother in South Portland's Calvary Cemetery. He was buried with full military honors and the Honor Guard traveled all the way from New York to participate. Every day I think about him and cherish the memories I have of him growing up. On Monday I'll also be thinking of all the men in the photographs with him knowing they helped him through the tough times abroad. So on Memorial Day I'll go visit his gravesite and be thankful for all he did for the country and our family.
May 26, 2000 |